"Less but better" is a phrase that comes from Greg McKeown's book, Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. It does take some discipline and effort to become an essentialist when it comes to laundry. This is because in most cases, less (but better) laundry means both reducing what you have and creating habits around laundry. Let's talk about reducing what we have for a second here.
Here's the thing: back in the day (for hundreds of years up until the washing machine was invented), people had much less clothing and linens, and what they did have took way more effort to maintain. Cloth was expensive and labor intensive to produce in the first place. People had maybe two or three sets of clothing. Laundry work took two days of hard labor every week if you did it yourself. "Monday wash day, Tuesday Ironing" was an ancient weekly routine. If you didn't do it yourself, you'd hire the washer woman or other professional launderers to do it for you--people made laundry their career.
The washing machine changed a lot about home lifestyle.
Imagine if those people from years ago had a washing machine. A middle class family of four could probably could have washed everything they owned in a few loads, and modern fabrics often make ironing unnecessary at all. An entire two day's labor could have been turned into half a day's work.
So why is laundry so hard for us now?
We just have a lot more stuff then they did back then. Cheaper clothing and linens make it easier for us to have far more of everything that goes through the laundry.
So one way to simplify the laundry is to reduce the inventory.
I'm not saying it's time to get rid of lots of your clothes and linens now, but for the sake of gaining some time in the short term, try an experiment. Try taking a less laundry vacation.
Act as if you are packing for a two-week trip involving all your everyday activities: daily work wear, outings, church, exercise, sports, or whatever activities are in the regular routine. Try to avoid packing any items needing dry cleaning or special treatment in the laundry. You want to pack light but still have everything you'd need in clothing, bedding, and towels for both the kitchen and the bathroom. Start with a list or two in your BOPO if it's helpful. Then you can even get out some suitcases and bags and pack what you want to take on your "vacation," or you can just make piles of what you wrote on your lists. But go ahead and actually sort out your vacation items from the rest.
Anything not packed for vacation then gets set aside--and by that I mean removed from normal circulation. Bag it in bags, put it in boxes, and get it out of your everyday closets and drawers. Just stash your extras somewhere out of the way for now. Don't get rid of these piles. Just stash them. There may be a lot of stuff to empty out of drawer and closets and set aside. Rest assured that having these items gathered up is actually going to help you get a head start in Unit 3.
This is a lot of packing. It's ok for it to take a few days. In the process of all this packing, feel free to set aside anything you come across that is what Dana K White calls a "duh donation"--something you don't have to think twice about getting rid of. Hopefully you've got your sorting station set up from doing the kitchen still and can just add donations to your donation pile. If you find trash (and you probably will), you know what to do with it.
Once you've done that, you've arrived at your laundry vacation destination. Unpack you vacation bags (or piles) into your considerably more empty closets, drawers, and linen closets.
Try living with just what you packed for your vacation for the next two weeks. When it is time to wash a load, follow this laundry vacation plan:
Gather all the laundry that needs to be cleaned, including any bedding, towels, etc.
If you're sure about the colorfastness of your pile, you don't even have to sort the laundry into whites and colors. Just load up the machine, add the soap, and run on cold.
If you are worried about whites coming out slightly tinged with color, go ahead and sort but only into two piles: whites and colors. Then run your whites separately. While it isn't necessary to run white laundry on hot, if you have any concerns with dust mites, bed bugs, or other shenanigans going on, by all means run your whites on hot, eliminate abominations, and be at peace. Watch out though. Running colors on a hot cycle can sometimes affect the colors.
Line dry or use the dryer or whatever is best in your situation.
When it's time to fold and hang up the clean laundry, start by hanging up any items that should be hung. Then skip folding.
Yes. I said it. Don't fold the other laundry at all.
Put your remaining laundry unfolded into the drawers or containers where it belongs. If stuff doesn't fit without folding, go ahead and fold enough to make it fit. But only just enough to make it fit.
Iron only if you absolutely cannot avoid it.
This is vacation, OK? It's only for two weeks.
After two weeks, evaluate. Did the laundry vacation reduce the time and effort involved in doing the laundry? How much of the vacation lifestyle makes sense to make a permanent part of your laundry lifestyle?
You may decide that you are ok with not folding clothes ever again. Not only is that OK, that's fantastic. As long as your clothes and linens come out looking presentable, there's no rule saying you have to fold them to store them. Hooray! To be completely honest, I have helped people set up laundry storage systems that have hampers for both dirty laundry and clean laundry--so they never even have to put their clean clothes in drawers or on hangers at all if that's just too much for them to do (cuz they're just too lazy or cuz they really don't have the capacity to put stuff away). These types of "no fold" system can actually reduce your dirty laundry piles because the kids--and others--find it just as easy to put their clean laundry in the clean hamper as in the dirty one where they used to hide the clean clothes they didn't want to put away...
However, if you do decide though that folding really helps your clean laundry storage situation, try adopting the Konmari folding method for joyful folding which you can learn here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjkmqbJTLBM. Marie Kondo also shares folding techniques in her book, Spark Joy.
Before you go digging back into all the stuff you put away during your laundry vacation, get real with yourself: how much of that stuff did you actually miss? Consider leaving these items put away until we approach them again during the next unit: Serious Purging Party.
There's nothing like a vacation to help you gain perspective on life . . . and laundry.